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The Harder I Fight the More I Love You by Neko Case

Memoir

The Harder I Fight the More I Love You

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Grammy-nominated singer and songwriter Neko Case reveals her remarkable life story in this tell-all memoir.

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Neko Case has long been revered as one of music’s most influential artists, whose authenticity, lyrical storytelling, and sly wit have endeared her to a legion of critics, musicians, and lifelong fans. In The Harder I Fight, the More I Love You, Case brings her trademark candor and precision to a memoir that traces her evolution from an invisible girl “raised by two dogs and a space heater” in rural Washington state to her improbable emergence as an internationally-acclaimed talent. In luminous, sharp-edged prose, Case shows readers what it’s like to be left alone for hours and hours as a child, to take refuge in the woods around her home, and to channel the monotony and loneliness and joy that comes from music, camaraderie, and shared experience into art.

The Harder I Fight, the More I Love You is a rebellious meditation on identity and corruption, and a manifesto on how to make space for ourselves in this world, despite the obstacles we face.

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This book contains scenes depicting sexual assault and child abuse and mentions of domestic violence.
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Pageboy
The Fox Wife
The Many Lives of Mama Love
The Other Significant Others
The Wives
Dearest
Inside Out
We're Going To Need More Wine
Here After
Sociopath
Swan Song
The Rom-Commers
I’m Glad My Mom Died
One in a Millennial
Sure I'll Join Your Cult
The House of My Mother
Let Us Descend
Did I Ever Tell You?
Notes on a Silencing
Cher: Part One
Grief Is for People
When I Was Your Age
High School
The Harder I Fight the More I Love You
Bossypants
Astor
Pretty Boys Are Poisonous
How to Say Babylon
Thicker Than Water
You Didn’t Hear This From Me
While You Were Out
Dear Mr. You
Calypso
Family Lore
Group
Hunger
The Choice
Finding Me
If You Would Have Told Me
Leslie F*cking Jones
Somebody's Daughter
Down the Drain
The Ocean at the End of the Lane
Dinner for Vampires
Just Kids
My Body
More Myself
Theft by Finding
The Girl with the Lower Back Tattoo
Aftershocks
My Friend Anna
Big Friendship
With the Fire on High